Tuesday, January 30, 2007

Ria and Riva

I found out the other day that everybody is unicellular for about an half hour in their life.

Riva is 18 months. Her present priority is to learn as many things as she can (mainly to speak and to write).
She refers to a toothbrush as a ‘Brush Your Teeth’, and calls me in baby tongue, ‘Milan-Paju’.
She's also a natural born lefty. Wait, aren't lefties born lefties?
She distances herself from ominous looking things as inherent surviving instinct. Especially me. She calls me 'Milan Paju' only when her mom's next to her, and that too, very gingerly.

Ria is about 8 years. When I met her at Nidhi's wedding, I found her so cute that I instinctively winked at her. She just broke into a shy grin and turned her heels to disappear behind the door curtain.
Later, I found out that she had created a healthy ruckus among her generation. Nidhi's youngest sister caught me winking at Ria again later on, and exclaimed "So Ria WAS telling the truth!!".
I let out a guilty smile.
Just then I espied Ria espying and me, and SHE winked at me! Quite disarming!

Sunday, January 28, 2007

My initial days in Biratnagar

Strange things happening which, strangely, isnt sounding strange anymore...

There isn’t much to do in Biratnagar. Here, there is only one street (Main Road) that shows activity, and all the places are reachable by foot. The only restaurant you can take your family for dinner is named 'Valentine Restaurant'. There is a rickshaw syndicate at the airport which charges exorbitant amounts to unsuspecting first-timers (I got lucky). Biratnagar proper downtown is just a stretch of straiiiiight road where 'everything' lies.

The Departmental Store concept hasn’t quite hit this place. I wanted to buy a deodorant the other day, and I had to ask a Sahuji 'Oo, tyo chahi dinus ta... and after a while, 'Arko fragrance ma chhaina?' (then Sahuji subsequently telling his assistant 'Jara woh wala lana toh').

There are many high-profile, family-run businesses; most of the prominent marwari business family (Chaudhary, Golchha, Murarka, Todi, etc.) are all based here. But all the bigshots currently reside elsewhere. But still, you can see the business acumen in the very culture of Biratnagar itself. Almost all banks in Nepal have a branch in Main Road and are so close together that a businessman can venture out in a bicycle and learn the rates offered by all the banks within half an hour- plus, he has the culturally acquired business acumen to employ Game Theory and trigger off a mini cutthroat drive where the banks end up lowering their rates against each other and competing blindly. Here, only the customer has eyes.